Frustration and sarcasm are lost on " almost 4" year olds.
Let me preface this by sharing that I currently have hives spreading over my legs and arms and want to scrape my skin off, literally. 24hr Zyrtec wore off about 10hrs into it's dose and I can't find my 5 yr old steriod stuff that works wonders. Most days I am a decent mom, today... probably not.
Kate spent about 30 minutes going to the restroom. I want her to be able to take care of the whole process like she has been doing for quite some time. Recently, she wants help but I know she can do it {I don't want to do regression} so I ignore {can't you tell I'm doing great at that by blogging about it} the time it takes. After her visit she comes and stands 2 feet from me. I can smell soap. I can see wet shiny hands. I heard the door shut, sink running, and the potty flush. She doesn't need to check in. She stands and stares...kinda like those weird kids at the end of the street when I was little, that couldn't come play so they just stood and watched us play?!?!?
I don't want a weird kid so I broke and asked "What do you want Kate?". "I went potty" "Good job, Kate. I heard you do all the right stuff. You can go play." She's still standing there.
"What do you want Kate?" Blank stare. "Do you need something?" Blank stare. "Kate, what do you want from me?" Blank stare so I try ignoring again to which a few minutes later she quietly said " I went potty", thoughtlessly {and frustrated} I replied "Whadda want babe, a sticker?" to which she replies "I would actually like a trick or treat and a tinkerbell tattoo."
Ahh Miss Kate thanks for breaking my bad additude but sorry no treats or tats today.
OHHH an HaPpY BiRtHdAy Miss Gracie! 6 years young! Don't fret she wanted a
concert w/ dad versus a party and has scored several nice gifts from family.